Why did you left alone?

Why did you left alone?

In recent years, many of us often began to complain of the ungrateful children, the uncomprehending friends, relatives harmful, tyrannical leaders, and intolerable colleagues. But the hit of the last few seasons is a complaint by women, accusations and criticism of men.

Listen to these people and begin to doubt that in this world there is at least one normal and adequate person... Well, except for themselves. And it is not surprising that such fellows run all who can though to run away. If this is not possible, for example, are children or close relatives, they are closed, closed in itself, begin to strongly hide and protect your personal space. Hide and cherish your soul from the dirty boots of evil, hatred and criticism.

Why are so few people who truly appreciate and cherish loved ones, family, husbands and wives, friends and just acquaintances? Many of us think that we have eternity, and we will have time to cash in, socialize, be happy and someday to right the wrongs committed every day, not thinking and not analyzing yourself, your actions and habits. And now... Now, more importantly, earn more money, it is more important to go to the fashion country, to buy some fashion items, it is more important to gossip and to "change stone" to relatives or friends, and even more important to tell loved ones what they "wrong, wrong and do not understand the". Tell them the truth, because who, except you, knows better how to live properly?

Why did you left alone?

After all, criticism is a good thing, without criticism allegedly the person ceases to evolve. So you need to give the people close to you every day by the spoonful, no, a few tons of this righteous, supposedly improving human criticism. After all, you live they way you want in your view. And they don't go the way you want. And do they all somehow crookedly and slantwise, well, certainly not as it should be on is not clear who instituted the rules.
And well if these things said the stranger. Usually people hear it from the relatives, from the most seemingly relatives and dear people. The worst thing is when it originates in the family. Mother, not thinking about what feels the child or children, throwing mud at their father. And what he is negligent, and drinks, and around the house helps, and earns little, and does not know how to behave, and what else is there? Yes many women can say that about their husbands. Not realizing that all these humiliations and insults to the spouse are not as she would like. Get rid of negative thoughts! They start actions.
First, the husband will not change, and secondly, the attitude towards such a hysterical person is unlikely to improve.

For some reason many women do not realize that humiliating their husbands, they thereby only humiliate yourself. And in this case, these women never thought about how and what their children feel?

Why did you left alone?

For example, will adjust it at some time against his father. What? First, if the man is normal, and often these vicious personages are quite normal men, sooner or later the child will grow and he will figure everything out. And understanding that his mother was specifically pitted him against the father, does not impact a plus in his attitude towards her.

And secondly, even if his father is not very decent man who is listening from early childhood bad things about it as it will further help the little man? Does the fact that a child and then an adult, feel more confident, happier and kinder?

If you belong to the category of such ladies and allow the children and the children themselves, to say nasty things about their father, think for once and not yourself. Although I doubt that such women are capable of such an act. Listening to them, there is a strong feeling that they just like to insult and humiliate his wife. They like to talk shit about others, because in these moments they exalt themselves in their eyes.

Still, even if you belong to this category of women, maybe somewhere deep, deep inside you still have kindness, compassion and decency? You may at some point stop and look at ourselves? And then when you see your child with haunted, miserable eyes and a bleeding soul? You will see how your child is miserable from these endless wars, interpersonal, charges and finding who is right and who is wrong. He doesn't need these arguments. He doesn't even need you every day praising each other. Children raised in such families often want only to be left alone. Their souls are so torn, they are so confused about which of the parents they should love and who to hate, sometimes they want only to get away from such "wonderful" parents.