How do you know that you love someone?
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You kinda always want this man? Well, that's the attraction. You are interested in him? Well, it's friendship. You admire what he does and how cool is he doing this? Is respect. Do you like the way he treats you and what are you with him? The vanity. Usually love mixed all this together, but there is one thing that categorically distinguishes love from the same set of attributes. This desire to share. That is all in the meaning of his life and time in it – not only in order to satisfy their needs through this man (to fuck, benefit, delight and satisfaction of desires in the here and now), but because you have a relationship. A large collaborative project, is not always easy, not always consisting only of pleasures – but has a huge potential and the need for investments – the investments of caring, trust, commitment, time, effort, generosity, affection, acceptance, patience, sincerity, kindness and admiration. This is all – this is the value of the relationship. When you create something in common, together, trusting each other and supporting each other, admiring each other, wanting and liking: themselves, each other and common, that you create together. We have ceased to believe in it. We believe in money and pleasure. We became cowardly – we can't dare to trust and attached.

