Take the time and energy for yourself and your loved ones

Take the time  for your loved ones

Why is it so often that it is the most near and dear to our people less of all goes to our affection, warmth, love and attention? After all, it would seem that the opposite must happen, the closer and dearer to you the more love and gratitude you feel. But often as it turns out – if a stranger, we will smile, try to hide their problems and troubles, to speak in a very polite and courteous. So they came home and began. The children can break away and yell, well, what the husband(wife) will get it, usually, includes many married couples just into a daily habit, in a familiar background.

And often this happens for one simple reason – due to the fact that we get tired and never knew when to relax, relieve fatigue and relieve stress.

But then, yelling at each other, or just ripping off the tired and irritated, we begin to greatly regret it. Well, if people can come up and apologize, to explain their behavior: "I'm Sorry I snapped at you, you here at anything. Just today was a hard day, I'm very tired, so could not help it". Or: "Excuse me, dear. The day I'm so tired, so many things have accumulated over the week and children today, something particularly highly get up to mischief, so he take it out on you".

Why did you left alone?

Why did you left alone?

In recent years, many of us often began to complain of the ungrateful children, the uncomprehending friends, relatives harmful, tyrannical leaders, and intolerable colleagues. But the hit of the last few seasons is a complaint by women, accusations and criticism of men.

Listen to these people and begin to doubt that in this world there is at least one normal and adequate person... Well, except for themselves. And it is not surprising that such fellows run all who can though to run away. If this is not possible, for example, are children or close relatives, they are closed, closed in itself, begin to strongly hide and protect your personal space. Hide and cherish your soul from the dirty boots of evil, hatred and criticism.

And whether to retaliate for the hurt and evil?

And whether to retaliate for the hurt and evil?

"If you sit long on the banks of the river, you can see how it will float a corpse of your enemy". "The art of war" sun Tzu

Indeed, wanting to take revenge on someone for the offense and harm, or to avenge the betrayal, it seemed to go on the warpath. Thoughts are overcome with only one goal – to make people hurt, to make him suffer just like you suffered because of his words or actions. Everything else fades into the background. At the first place is REVENGE for the insult and evil...

I must admit, I used to have such thoughts at parting with "men of my dreams." In my head spun, "how could he! Who does he think he is!". I wanted to make this man suffered, so it was bad. Immediately ripe crazy ideas how this can be implemented. The brain gave rise to the diabolical plans of how to make the offender suffer.

Why do we need fellowship?

Why do we need fellowship?

Communication is a complex process activities for establishing contacts between individuals and entire groups. Without communication human society simply would not exist. Since the appearance of the first man, it was the cause and the key to the emergence of society and civilization. Modern people can not live without communication in any area of his life and activity, despite whether the person likes the alone or company, he is an extrovert or an introvert. Let's try to find the causes of this unique phenomenon of sociability, and to answer the question, why do we need communication.

The role of communication in human life

The answer to the question, what is the necessity of communication, brings us the history of primitive society. From communication, which first people were made by gestures, and developed human speech, gave birth to the concept and notation of objects, and later writing. Thanks to the fellowship and the society, human society, has established particular rules for communication between people.