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| And whether to retaliate for the hurt and evil? |
"If you sit long on the banks of the river, you can see how it will float a corpse of your enemy". "The art of war" sun Tzu
Indeed, wanting to take revenge on someone for the offense and harm, or to avenge the betrayal, it seemed to go on the warpath. Thoughts are overcome with only one goal – to make people hurt, to make him suffer just like you suffered because of his words or actions. Everything else fades into the background. At the first place is REVENGE for the insult and evil...
I must admit, I used to have such thoughts at parting with "men of my dreams." In my head spun, "how could he! Who does he think he is!". I wanted to make this man suffered, so it was bad. Immediately ripe crazy ideas how this can be implemented. The brain gave rise to the diabolical plans of how to make the offender suffer.
A dangerous condition indeed. The desire to take revenge for treason, or for the offense and the evil that dwells within you, as a weed envelops thought, the soul and does not think about anything else. You're becoming obsessed. Revenge becomes the purpose – the primary leading you on life's path.
Fortunately, I have such outbursts of anger are the next day and "plan Barbarossa" crumble like a house of cards. Sleep and bringing his thoughts in order, I understand that this is not the way to retaliate for the offense.
Indeed, wanting to take revenge on someone for the offense and harm, or to avenge the betrayal, it seemed to go on the warpath. Thoughts are overcome with only one goal – to make people hurt, to make him suffer just like you suffered because of his words or actions. Everything else fades into the background. At the first place is REVENGE for the insult and evil...
I must admit, I used to have such thoughts at parting with "men of my dreams." In my head spun, "how could he! Who does he think he is!". I wanted to make this man suffered, so it was bad. Immediately ripe crazy ideas how this can be implemented. The brain gave rise to the diabolical plans of how to make the offender suffer.
A dangerous condition indeed. The desire to take revenge for treason, or for the offense and the evil that dwells within you, as a weed envelops thought, the soul and does not think about anything else. You're becoming obsessed. Revenge becomes the purpose – the primary leading you on life's path.
Fortunately, I have such outbursts of anger are the next day and "plan Barbarossa" crumble like a house of cards. Sleep and bringing his thoughts in order, I understand that this is not the way to retaliate for the offense.
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| And whether to retaliate for the hurt and evil? |
If we consider the relationship between a man and a woman, it is actually because of what we want retribution? Due to the fact that the opponent decided to leave with us? But without the same smoke, there's fire. So you're not two halves, which are meant to be together. So in some ways you're not right for each other.
If a case of treason, it turns out the person in the other woman found those qualities not found in you. But this does not mean that you are bad. The other man will appreciate their worth and value, and this means... just not yours. Of course, it is difficult to understand and accept at first.
Sober thoughts come with a cool head. And when we are outraged, angry, us manages only offense, who whispers in his ear: "This cannot be left like this, it is necessary to take revenge on him!".
How important it is not to listen to this deceptive, lying voice. How important it is to drown it in the Bud until it grew into an obsession to get even with the offender, so much so that he remembered for a long time. Why is it so important? But let's fast forward to the future and see an example scenario, how the events unfolded, if you still decided to take revenge.
So, you know the nature of man, his weaknesses, therefore, making a sketch as to hurt him, in principle, not difficult...in theory. The next step is to consider the strategy and maneuvers. You wrestle with how to apply your theory in practice. How to trap, what trap to arrange, scold him with a new passion (if that's the opponent) or, how to ruin his career, causing moral or material damage. Everything else you don't care. Own work, friends, relatives – be episode in your life. The main character is a bully or the desire to crush, to pulverize. You even to have fun. you can't because the head sits in this nasty worm, and sharpens you from within, saturating them with venom.
If a case of treason, it turns out the person in the other woman found those qualities not found in you. But this does not mean that you are bad. The other man will appreciate their worth and value, and this means... just not yours. Of course, it is difficult to understand and accept at first.
Sober thoughts come with a cool head. And when we are outraged, angry, us manages only offense, who whispers in his ear: "This cannot be left like this, it is necessary to take revenge on him!".
How important it is not to listen to this deceptive, lying voice. How important it is to drown it in the Bud until it grew into an obsession to get even with the offender, so much so that he remembered for a long time. Why is it so important? But let's fast forward to the future and see an example scenario, how the events unfolded, if you still decided to take revenge.
So, you know the nature of man, his weaknesses, therefore, making a sketch as to hurt him, in principle, not difficult...in theory. The next step is to consider the strategy and maneuvers. You wrestle with how to apply your theory in practice. How to trap, what trap to arrange, scold him with a new passion (if that's the opponent) or, how to ruin his career, causing moral or material damage. Everything else you don't care. Own work, friends, relatives – be episode in your life. The main character is a bully or the desire to crush, to pulverize. You even to have fun. you can't because the head sits in this nasty worm, and sharpens you from within, saturating them with venom.
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| And whether to retaliate for the hurt and evil? |
And here you achieve your. The revenge plan is implemented. The person who made you suffer in pain just like you once. What happens to your soul at that moment? She calmed down? Are you happy?
Never, never revenge for the insult and wrong, not rewarding. About it hundreds of times already filmed in the movie and proves the practice of life. And not to forget about this moment: who you think you are? Who gives you the right to decide the fate of another person, punishing him for his actions? It is not your prerogative. Of course, all situations are different and sometimes the offender deserves punishment. But! Not at your suggestion.
Everything in life really happens on the boomerang effect and the life she knows when to encourage and when to punish. In a year, two, maybe ten or even at the end of life, but the man gets what he deserves. Still, the Hindus are not so trembling with karma, something in this. A bad action begets punishment, but in what it will be and when, we decide we don't...
It would not have offended you people, let him go – mentally, emotionally. It is sometimes very difficult. He'll get his, believe me. But let your hands, figuratively speaking, will not be stained with another's blood, even if they remain clean.
Everything in life really happens on the boomerang effect and the life she knows when to encourage and when to punish. In a year, two, maybe ten or even at the end of life, but the man gets what he deserves. Still, the Hindus are not so trembling with karma, something in this. A bad action begets punishment, but in what it will be and when, we decide we don't...
It would not have offended you people, let him go – mentally, emotionally. It is sometimes very difficult. He'll get his, believe me. But let your hands, figuratively speaking, will not be stained with another's blood, even if they remain clean.
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